Many good questions the first being a matter of control that can be mastered over time and extended through an emphasis on foreplay rather than jumping right to intercourse. The lover's responses can dramatically increase how fast I cum the first time or how quickly I'm prepared to go again if their motivation is proactive. Some lovers ( for example) may accept that a man is "one and done" laying there hoping for another hard on while another knows that I need to be reinvigorated through enticement. This is where communication before, during or after makes the most difference in how I perform!

 

There was a time where the feeling was just too intense for me and I just had to 'launch my rocket'
I always felt bad that I couldn't last longer than I did back then. Fortunately, it didn't take me very long to 're-load'
Today, I can last much longer, but I have to be careful not to get irritated or I can't have a good cum at all.
I, generally, am much better at timing my orgasm, but make sure my partner cums first, and THAT actually excites me to a nice finish most of the time.

 

Always sleep with mature men, We always cum last.

 

I use a numbing cream, the sex kinda sucks but I can pretty much fuck forever and not need to cum.

 

Just because my cock goes soft doesn't mean my tongue does. Love licking n sucking pussy

 

Back in those days if I had a “planned encounter” during a dry spell, masturbation a day ahead of the date was my way. In unplanned encounters where I had a full load, I shot fairly quickly but was good for four of five rounds anyway. And, I had no problem giving her oral in between if she liked. I did find the ladies mixed on oral after I came in them, some insisted on it, others were repulsed by the mention of it. So, a quick second round recovery was my best solution. My favorites though were when she was totally turned on by my oral which made my second round boner even harder.

 

I just think the years I have practice I get better and last longer I know I can have a marathon sessions. I will never forget that when I got my cherry popped I came in about a minute. I wish I could bang her now she wouldn't know what hit her

 

If I want to go a second round I'll pull out and cum ....not completely sure why but it's possible that physiologically if I'm not planting that seed so to speak; I'm wired to try again.....

 

I recently just had sex for the first time in a long time. Im 38. She knew the situatiin before we started. It was like I was a kid. Feeling a warm, wet pussy suck my cock in...I busted very quickly. I just kept going after that, though. I have always been a quick cummer for the first round. The secind round is usually great. My only issue has been getting used to how sensitive my cock is after I blow. Once I move past that, it is easy for me to keep it going. With the right partner I can virtually keep going as long as she wants it. In my early 20s I could go through as many 5-7 orgasms regularly fucking...which is good, because I have a very average tool...and am not special. Long live a hard cock and multiple cummer!

 

For me is more foreplay.. and bjs always bring me back up

 

I wear a condom.

 

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I can usually go twice before I have to stop. Most time my wife thinks I've came once when in reality it's usually twice lol

 

Whats a condom?

 

Mostly i ask to bite my shoulder as Hard as she can, n not release it, if it is not a reular parner and i Don t know how much she needs, i start in an awkward position. I can fuck forever in a cow girl position. But when she takes a reverse position i can com in a minutes, some times i try to hold back by disattracting my mind from her. I guess it Mostly phisics, her willingness, is she saucy enough, how she respond. Sometimes women let us fuck herself, other times i think it was she Who did the fucking. If she moans or keep silent, is she tight,

 

I don't come easily anyway but those in the know have a few tricks and there is always corporal to pass the time between orgasms or aid recovery!

Thinskin

 

I spend a lot of time eating pussy and ass

 

Exactly. I was always somewhat hit-or-miss with the ladies, so I necessarily jacked off a decent amount. I could masturbate through a full length porno and come only at the end and it was just a matter of recognizing the feelings of the beginnings of an orgasm, and easing off the intensity of masturbation. Same idea when fucking.

 

last longer stop find different things/ways to do.........in time you can last longer

 

This was an interesting experiment for the guy that was talking to me about it. He unexpectedly got a date that he was pretty excited about, and he tells me he was so turned on that he was able to go two rounds easily. I think he now knows that if he is turned on enough, it won't be a problem!

 

Someone else posted along these lines - finding the right partner is key to longevity. A chick who's gonna grab and yank with no regard for what she's doing is is going to get a load much faster than one who can read my body language and ease off or switch it up at the right times. A good grab of the balls helps ease the over excitement while still being playful in nature and not ruining the fun.

Lastly, again, with the right partner, I've been able to cum a third or fourth time while NOT being hard - a "limp ejaculation" if you will - those are the best, but hard to come by because my partner has figured out the combination of my other erogenous zones that get me to climax when the plumbing is not pressurized.